Field notes · Dog training in Angier & Raleigh, NC

How do I build my dog's confidence?

A nervous dog doesn't get braver by being kept away from what worries him. He gets braver by handling it with help, and finding out that he could.

Bun, episode 6. "Rooted in something" — reading fear, not punishing it

Bun, episode 11. Someone pops out — the nervousness underneath

In the trainer's words

There's some pressure but he overcomes it, so he starts to gain confidence because he becomes competent.Kelton, Head Trainer, Angier K9 Consultants

Seen with 4 dogs: Bun, Kodak, Finn, Reaper

81 recorded moments, each one linked to the exact second it happens in a full training session published unedited. Trainers call this confidence from competence.

"Rooted in something" — reading fear, not punishing it 12:41
Bun · episode 6

"Rooted in something" — reading fear, not punishing it

Someone pops out — the nervousness underneath 3:36
Bun · episode 11

Someone pops out — the nervousness underneath

Nervous to come out — then fully through 8:42
Bun · episode 15

Nervous to come out — then fully through

Hard stare, snapping, lunging — who he was 30:14
Bun · episode 28

Hard stare, snapping, lunging — who he was

The trainer not being afraid is part of the method 30:41
Bun · episode 29

The trainer not being afraid is part of the method

Punished, not negatively reinforced 31:05
Bun · episode 30

Punished, not negatively reinforced

You don't have to be afraid 32:47
Bun · episode 31

You don't have to be afraid

Working the first refusal 3:55
Bun · episode 52

Working the first refusal

Insecurity, not disobedience 12:04
Bun · episode 54

Insecurity, not disobedience

What's your plan?" — "Exposure. 14:40
Bun · episode 55

What's your plan?" — "Exposure.

Confidence comes from competence 15:05
Bun · episode 56

Confidence comes from competence

Pressure he doesn't know what to do with 15:31
Bun · episode 57

Pressure he doesn't know what to do with

Coping skills, and a jog after stress 15:58
Bun · episode 58

Coping skills, and a jog after stress

Pressure, release, reward — the whole loop 21:59
Bun · episode 60

Pressure, release, reward — the whole loop

Ears up, tail right, not reactive 44:01
Bun · episode 66

Ears up, tail right, not reactive

Down, heel, stairs, interactions — all at once 62:05
Bun · episode 69

Down, heel, stairs, interactions — all at once

A cart makes him nervous 63:21
Bun · episode 71

A cart makes him nervous

Zuri tries to pull him off something 24:18
Bun · episode 84

Zuri tries to pull him off something

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